We know you love your man, but let’s be honest — aren’t there a few things you wish he’d do differently between the sheets? If sex has become a little predictable here’s the good news: You can make your guy a better lover without damaging his ego (after all, he really does want to flip your pancake). Here’s how to turn things around — tonight!
Talk to Him About It — Just Not in the Sack
Try bringing up the issue — what you’d love to change — just make sure it’s outside the bedroom. Gail Wyatt, Ph.D., a licensed sex therapist, Professor of Psychiatry at the University of California Los Angeles and co-author of No More Clueless Sexrecommends taking the convo out of the bedroom. “These types of talks are better had outside of a sexual situation,” she says, “and be sure to lead from a positive place.” Wyatt suggests asking your partner to share what he likes the best and the least about your sex life. “Then you’ll have the forum to share your own thoughts.”