You might be afraid to take a chance on love after rejection, loss or defeat, but sticking close to home or making excuses may only be alienating you from someone who could serve as a guide or friend.
You may not be ready to take the next step, but this could be a warning that you’re ruining your own chances at happiness by being unwilling to compromise or afraid to try new opportunities.
Leave behind old baggage that helped to form your comfort zone.
If it isn’t working for you anymore, don’t keep going back for more.
If you feel you are up the creek without a paddle, get out and swim for the shore.